tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12243869.post8810976398470661228..comments2023-10-31T03:35:59.876-07:00Comments on once i wanted to be the greatest: Don't call it love.ryanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12371313291486703652noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12243869.post-16157650860819746412007-03-13T10:21:00.000-07:002007-03-13T10:21:00.000-07:00You know a lot. ;)Sorry if you felt like I was at...You know a lot. ;)<BR/><BR/>Sorry if you felt like I was attacking you with the Notebook antecdote. I would never want to take away, or belittle, something from someone that moves them. I guess I was just using that to illustrate my point about what moves me particularly.ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12371313291486703652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12243869.post-11436453299406870592007-03-13T10:08:00.000-07:002007-03-13T10:08:00.000-07:00I didn't really mean you're a cynic. What it is: I...I didn't really mean you're a cynic. What it is: I'm a marshmallow, it got me.<BR/> <BR/>But, I don't think you're a cynic and I can't wait to see BSM.<BR/><BR/>One of my favorite love stories is Wings of Desire, it's a love story about wanting to be in the world with all its pain because that's where your love is. I also love One from the Heart. <BR/><BR/>The Notebook reminded me of my grandparents and how devoted they were to each other, what good companions they were for each other and how they set the gold standard for a sweet, supportive relationship between two smart, independent people.<BR/><BR/>As for that special person: I think when we become that person for ourselves, they might come out of hiding. I'm crossing my fingers that this is the case. <BR/><BR/>But, I agree that there is a fine line between codependency and loving completely. I don't think love requires us to give everything away or be with someone who is unkind. But what do I know...?Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17689854556419076475noreply@blogger.com